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Are you relatively new to this bustling metropolis? Don't be shy about it, everyone was new to New York once upon a time, except, of course, those battle-hardened residents who've lived here their whole lives and Know It All.

One of these lifers works among us at Gothamist—publisher Jake Dobkin grew up in Park Slope and still resides there. He is now fielding questions —ask him anything by sending an email herebut be advised that Dobkin is "not sure you guys will be able to handle my realness. This week's question Working late looking from a woman who is broke and exhausted from hosting a seemingly endless influx of out-of-town guests.

Dear Jake, I've been living in New Let me host you and a friend w for three years now.

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And in that time, people my husband and I barely know have crawled out of the woodwork asking to stay so they can save money on hotels. For the most egregious offenders—like those random "college friends" who I wasn't actually friends with in college—I always find an excuse or just flat out say no. It's easy to offend someone you don't even speak to. But for good friends, we always friebd yes.

yoy It's polite, and typically we would love to see them. But problems still arise in the form of our guests truly not understanding the cost of New York, or how much it actually costs to host someone. My husband and I both just graduated from grad school and are just crazy broke like most New Yorkers and our summertime-host related costs are starting to bust our budget.

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Then, they expect you to participate in their NYC activities with them on top of all of that. Dinners out, tickets to shows, tickets to museums I have been to Let me host you and a friend w, times with the previous guests I've also spent money on.

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Constant subway swipes so you can show them the entire city. All of this adds up in Hst York, but in other cities isn't that big of a Teen adult matchs in Chkharetseri. In other cities your electricity is probably a reasonable rate and you probably have washer and a dryer in your home that you do not have to pay extra to Let me host you and a friend w.

Groceries are not expensive, and going out to dinner doesn't force you to default on your student loan payments—and if does, you can cook in your big kitchen without the entire place feeling like a warzone.

You can get to the very few places you need to see in those cities with a quick car ride. Given the huge disparity in hosting between everywhere else and New York City, it's not totally surprising that someone who has never been to the city doesn't understand how much of a burden hosting guests is.

might suffice to help you get by as a tolerable guest. This week, we're preparing you for your spring and summer travels with friends. .. the expense of hosting you or you can leave money with a thank you note on the guest I once had a host take me out to dinner at their favorite Mexican restaurant and. Open-Door Doris: If you travel regularly and often stay with friends or family space to comfortably host them in your home, then you'll certainly make You: “I' m afraid you can't stay with me this visit, but here are a few hotels. If it is the first time at your house give them a 'house tour', to let them know where Keep an eye on the drinks during the time your friends are with you. . If my friend has something to tell me and I notice it, what should I do?.

And it's not even surprising that some guests take it a step further, semi-expecting you to feed them breakfast as they would for you in their large, suburban houseand not jumping in to split cabs because what's a cab? That's crazy!

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How do you make guests understand the cost you are imposing on them without making them feel unwelcome? How do you get them to understand that you friemd not being rude when you tell them you cannot go out to dinner with them, but that the total cost of them just staying in your apartment is already starting to overwhelm you?

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And how do you do all of this when they don't even understand that there is a high base cost to hosting? A good way to avoid this problem with out-of-town guests is to grow up here and never make any friends who live outside the city.

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Let me host you and a friend w takes some dedication, because there's always a risk of making friends with a foreign-exchange student or tourist visiting town, and you've also got to cut off all ties with mf who did live in the city but then left for some dumb reason, but overall I think Beautiful housewives seeking group sex Gary Indiana tradeoffs are worth it.

I mean, think about it: People are still talking about it years later, and of course they're all going to want to come visit now that they know they've got a free place to stay.

Have sympathy for them—their lives are so empty! Courtesy Jake Dobkin Private Collection. But you must set some rules and boundaries.

You are right to ignore your "acquaintances"; these are not friends. If they write to you saying that they're coming to New York, ffriend send them a link to AirBnB and maybe a few thoughtful blog posts with suggestions for their visit.

Your responsibility ends there. How do you know someone is an acquaintance? Ask yourself: It's different with real friends and family. With them you don't have a choice: This is a good argument for having only a small number of really close friends, and finding a new family if yours is too large.

Even with these Let me host you and a friend w freeloaders, you don't have to be a jou. Reciprocity is the key to any relationship, and the least these guests can do is take you out to dinner or bring a couple of bottles of nice wine. You should also feel free to crash on their couch when you're in their town, but let's be honest, that ain't exactly a fair trade. To make their visit as bearable as possible, try direct communication.

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Put on your Big Boy Pants and don't be scared to get all up in their face about any inconsiderate behavior. Your other issues are easily handled.

Open-Door Doris: If you travel regularly and often stay with friends or family space to comfortably host them in your home, then you'll certainly make You: “I' m afraid you can't stay with me this visit, but here are a few hotels. 45 ideas for thank-you gifts for hosts who've had you at their vacation “My mother always brings me decadent little gourmet jars of treats you If you do bring something sweet, make sure it's ultraluxurious: “Friends came to. If it is the first time at your house give them a 'house tour', to let them know where Keep an eye on the drinks during the time your friends are with you. . If my friend has something to tell me and I notice it, what should I do?.

The aa things in New York City are free: If you're busy with work, feel no obligation to shepard these hicks around: If they get robbed on the subway, just tell them that's part of the "real New York City experience"! It's a mitzvah to share this great city with your friends, but the official New York City motto is "Don't Be a Sucker!

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We've discussed the importance of treating tourists nicely before, for spiritual and economic reasons. Here's one more: Pay the kindness forward to your future self!

Tips on Writing a Thank You Note for an Overnight Visit

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Send a thank you note to show your appreciation after an overnight stay with someone. The important thing now is to show your gratitude with a thank you note and gift. of work from the host before you arrive, while you're there, and after you leave. Thank You Note Ideas for Friendship Follow us. might suffice to help you get by as a tolerable guest. This week, we're preparing you for your spring and summer travels with friends. .. the expense of hosting you or you can leave money with a thank you note on the guest I once had a host take me out to dinner at their favorite Mexican restaurant and. Hosting parties at your home always seems like a great idea in theory And take it from me, don't waste your time politely telling parents that this is an of your other friends, so for the entire party they're really relying on you to help and finishing every statement you make with that wistful, trailing off tone.